When The Heart Speaks Louder Than Words

When The Heart Speaks Louder Than Words
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Friday, September 16, 2011

acceptance ~~~ is all that matters

we often forget whenever we had a fight with our loved ones or our friends~~~ that once we're mad at them .. then.. that's it... it's over...

why make promises if we can't abide to it till the end?? why even agree to stay together when we knew that one day we have to find our self a destiny to fill in... i really don't get it...

there's no such thing as true friend... this is reality.. we're gonna get hurt no matter what... we gonna hurt them.. no exception ... but what matter is that we accept the false not only the beauty from every individuality that we choose to be our friends.. we can't expect that they going to treat us good everyday.. we can't expect them to understand us .. to respect our decisions... we're human.. and we can't do the same to them either... and we sometimes made mistake... but what we can do is to be true and honest... i guess that what u need in any relationship..

you can't just force them to do WHAT YOU WANT ... there's this thing called toleration .. give and take?? fair and square?? acceptance even??
sometimes it felt as if there's just too much changes in our live that we couldn't manage to fit in accordingly... it's not that we've changed... it's just that we've grew up too fast.. and there's soo much thing we wanted to do in our lives...

if i am a good friend ... then i should respect their decision... not to hold them back... right? i don't really have the right to stop them from dreaming...it's their live to decide.. not mine.. in the end it's their happiness that counts .. not mine...

instead i should do the same... search for my dreams... built up my destiny that i was destined to do... find something that can change my life miraculously .... and be happy for everyone...
in the end.. it's all about acceptance... accept people as they are... good and bad.. because both if it... would gave us a hell of experiences ..... and from that we would know who are our true friends~~~