Too often we keep telling the injury story. we get attention and sympathy by being a victim or being right or by being wronged. we seek for cheap supports that kept us stuck in the same mud over and over again. if we invested in someone being the villain, its like we really LOVE being the victim. therefore, we have to let go both characters in the story.
Forgiveness is giving up all hope of a better past. of course at first that sounds harsh, but once you let go of what you wanted the past to be; you start changing the present and create a better future.
some say forgiveness is a process. that's true, but it starts with a decision. once you decide to change; you'll know when it's going to be easy to starts forgiving.
-great author: Regina Brett:God Never Blinks-